Bantay Bata163 Hosts Kasalang Bayan sa BayaniJuan
On February 23, Bantay Bata 163 Laguna hosted the first Kasalang Bayan in BayaniJuan sa Southville 7 in Calauan, Laguna. The mass wedding was held for 38 couples, with ages ranging from 18 to 53 , who have been living together for years. These couples were relocated from BayaniJuan three years ago. All of them have children, some even have grandchildren already. They could not afford to legalize their relationships due to financial difficulties.

Aling Nemia recalled how difficult life was in Floodway Pasig. They could barely make both ends meet. To help the family, their older children worked as house helpers. Even with some of the children working, day to day living was still a struggle. In September 2009, their house and the little that they owned were swept away by typhoon Ondoy. They were one of the evacuees in ULTRA stadium. On the same year, their family was relocated in BayaniJuan . Slowly, they were able to rebuild their lives.
Aling Nemia said that she and Mang Bernardo longed to get married – that’s the only thing lacking in their relationship. She said they wanted to formalize their relationship, solidify their union and show their children the importance of married life. She stressed that marriage is a foundation of a lasting and enduring relationship.
When information about Kasalang Bayan was disseminated to the community, more than 50 couples applied. Only 38 though was able to complete the requirements. The 38 couples personally submitted their CENOMAR (Certificate of No Marriage), Birth Certificates and other requirements of the local civil registrar’s office. BB163 Laguna organized the required seminars, tapped sponsors for their wedding and made sure that their ceremony will be memorable.
Wedding planners/ organizers, suppliers were hands on in facilitating a smooth and successful event, from processional, wedding rites to recessional; to reception and reception rites. The event was effectively carried out, giving a grand and solemn wedding to the newlyweds. Mr. Marex Gaba & Ms. Lisa Alviedo from Philippine Association of Wedding Planners showed how the event should be done. Wedding rings were donated by Matus Jewellery , Josiah’s Catering provided food, beverage, reception tables and chairs ; Nybie Ng for hair and make up of the brides; centerpiece cakes were donated by Emil Uy of Sugar Box, Maite Gregorio of Cake Concepts and Bullet of Dexter’s Cake; bouquets for the brides by Teddy Manuel of flowers & Events, Joyce Aguila of Floral Creations, Ramon Pastor of San Ramoune; wine from Goyena’s wine; Mayor Felisa and George Berris for cakes and lechon manok; balloons from Botak and Bubbles; and photos by Dino Lara Photography.
The ever supportive Calauan Mayor Felisa Berris was there to greet the newly weds. She talked about the importance of marriage, being a union of man and woman, who make a permanent and exclusive commitment to each other. Further, she cited the importance of communication, that couple should talk with each other regularly and share their difficulties and desires, respect their opinions and problems. Second was commitment. Mayor Berris demonstrated this as spending quality time with loved ones, school events, anniversaries, meals and special occasions. Third was Christ, putting Him as the center of the couples’ relationship, that they should devote for a joint spiritual life, as the family that prays together stays together.
Likewise, Mayor Berris also pointed to reasons why relationships do not work. irresponsibility of both husband and wife in not doing their part as father, mother and as parents. Further, she cited that marriage does not only take love to sustain a marriage. It needs love, trust, respect, common interests and fidelity.
From the start to end of ceremony, the couples’ were shown with glow and excitement. Clearly, the exchange of vows was not only a commitment to themselves but as commitment to their families.